Join HMU for a kinky mixer - this time in Brooklyn, at the Red Pavilion!

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A Hit Me Up kinky mixer is a relaxed and friendly way to meet other folks in the kink, poly, enm, and other communities. It's a PG-13 event, an opportunity to grab a few drinks, make some connections, and meet the HMU team in a low-key setting. We also have a variety of games and icebreaker activities, and our guardians with glowing red arm bands keeping an eye on things.

You're also welcome to simply hang out, chat, and let us get to know you. We've created this space as an easy, low-pressure way to connect with our community, get your questions answered, and help us get to know our members a little better.

This event is 21+ ID Required. Tickets starting $28 on Eventbrite.

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Bar - Enjoy the Red Pavillion's variety of alc & non-alc bevs (their cocktails are amazing)! DO NOT GET DRUNK - you will be asked to go home if we see anyone who is visibly intoxicated.

Price Transparency - Tickets are first come, first serve. All tiers provide access to the same event. The full fee reflects the true costs of running the event, including supplies and compensating facilitators for their labor. If you are able to afford a full price ticket without experiencing financial hardship, please choose this option. For those who identify as BIPOC, and/or those who cannot afford a full fee ticket are welcome to use our discount code EQUITY26 at checkout.

I'm new, what's this like? These mixer events are usually quite large, anywhere from 150 to 300 people joining us. That means there are plenty of new folks to meet, and hopefully the right types for whatever you're into. We know it might be a little weird--that's okay!

We provide some fun icebreaker games that help you to meet new people. Everything is PG-13, and it's fairly easy to meet new folks—everyone who comes to these events is specifically looking to at least make new friends. So don't be shy, introduce yourself. And if you run into any problems or someone makes you uncomfortable, talk to a guardian with a red armband, and we'll take care of it.

Membership: Most of our large events require membership, but this one does not require membership approval! If you're interested in becoming a member for our more private events, please fill out our new member application. Membership is completely free and only for vetting purposes. But it's not needed for this one!

There will be no tickets sold at the door, all attendees must purchase them through Eventbrite. If you have been specifically uninvited from Hit Me Up events, please do not try to attend this event.

Location: The Red Pavillion, 1241 Flushing Avenue, Brooklyn

Dress code: There's no enforced dress code, but we recommend all black or something nice. A bit of kinky flair is always welcome. If you look like you're going to try to pitch us on NFTs or stock options, you'll probably have less fun.

Volunteers: We are looking for volunteers to work the door and guardian at this event. To volunteer please reach out to admin@hitmeupnyc.com.

Consent Policy: This is an ASK FIRST event and the rules of respectful and consensual behavior WILL be enforced. You will be responsible for reading the policy and behaving appropriately. Guardians will be present throughout the night. Please click here to read our consent policy in full. Aggressive cruising or aggressively asking for member sponsorship or approval will not be tolerated. Take time and get to know the community! Any questions or issues? Email consent@hitmeupnyc.com

Covid Safety: Please stay home if you are feeling ill or if you have had recent close contact with someone who tested Covid positive (within the past 5 days). You could be incubating and still test negative. Any requests for refunds for any reason will be honored up to the day of the party. Just email hello@hitmeupnyc.com and we will give you a full refund, no questions asked.

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Hit Me Up: Kinky Mixer

Hit Me Up: Kinky Mixer